Maybe this time, I am back for good....so much has happened in the last year, going from splitting up with Corey (exactly a year and a day ago) to homeschooling the girls this school year and much more.
So...Corey and I hadn't been getting along, as many of you guys know....and I just couldn't do it anymore. So, even though he didn't like it, I asked him to leave the house and he did. Now, I won't say that I don't miss who he used to be sometimes, but he's just not that guy anymore, and that was one of the problems. Money was another one. But, anyway....It has been difficult, being Corey's not been the most supportive. But I *think* we have come to an understanding. I tried to be friends with him and it didn't work. So I don't really communicate with him unless I have to. It really has been for the best. Me and the girls are closer, and there is less fighting and arguing. The girls and I get along better now.
I started seeing someone too. His name is Jeremy. Things are awesome with us. ;)
Homeschooling with the girls....defentally interesting....they defentally keep me on my toes. there are a few times (a day...lol j/k) where i wonder if i bit off a little more than I could chew, but I remember that this is the best choice, considering all that happened. :)
Cj is doing well too...He is going to be transitioning to the IU #21, and while it's a good thing, it brings up a whole lot of "what could I have done differently, what could I do differently" questions. Did the separation set him back? You know what I mean. Of course, I look at all of the progress he has made: speaking at all, for instance, saying more and more and speaking sentences! It's not always audible, but he talks! His developmental levels are the same as last year, except in his speech catagory, according to Early Intervention. I worry about his sleeping patterns sometimes, because he doesn't like to go to bed, unless I am in the room with him and he's doing his pinching thing, but he's always done that. Sometimes it takes me 3+ hours to get him to bed....ugh....But....I am trying to work with him on that. :)
So....That's my story....and I am sticking to it. :)
Hopefully I can post my randomness and get back to my Ghetto Row Gormuet. ;)
December 25, 2017
5 years ago
2 comments:
I need to get back to my blog too! I just wanted to say I am proud of you for all you have been through and doing all that you are doing now :)!!
well like i have said before.. I am here to help in anyway i can. It is good to see you happy and smiling more.. I still stand by what i said before that i think you did the right thing for you and the kids.
I am glad you are seeing jeremy. I give him my sister approval.. He seems to have brought out the happiness in you that has been hiding for some time now.
As far as home schooling the girls. i wish you all the luck and i will help if i can if need be..
as with cj. I can see an improvement in his speech as well.. he never use to call out my name and take me by the hand when i would visit the way he does now.. don't go beating yourself up with all the what if's.. it will just make you stressed out.
Him going ot Ui 21 will do him good. michael went to Iu 20 and it really helped him in alot of areas.
I am also proud of you in more than one area for all that you are doing..
I Love you and the girls as if you were really my real family..
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